Personal Essay: “On Shapes”

For some reason or other I find myself flipping through the latest clothing catalog that landed with a very solid thump in the mailbox. Fall fashion is here and it’s time to convince us women that we need a brand new wardrobe again. I very rarely order clothes online, because I can’t try them on in advance and I know if the clothes aren’t a good fit, and they often aren’t, I have to go through the tedious process of returning them via mail. The catalog is filled with glossy page after page of smiling models, posing in perfect light and wearing clothes that always fit them just right. At the back of the catalog I find the size guide and accompanying it is a cheerful illustration of various body types with the headline announcing that all body shapes can find the perfect outfit within the pages of this catalog. Color me suspicious.

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Personal Essay: “Heteronormativity and Me”

Before I had even become aware of the term “heteronormativity” I was affected by it, unbeknownst to me it had begun to shape me from the minute I was born. It meant acting in a certain way, dressing in a certain way, being a certain kind of person. A person that fits into our society.

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